Sharing custody of a child after divorce can be a challenge for parents, but it is often the arrangement that is in the best interests of a child. As such, many California parents who share legal custody will have to make decisions for their child together. This can create conflict when parents disagree on various matters. If you are struggling … Read More
What should we include in our parenting agreement?
Deciding how to parent together but separately is often a challenge for parents who divorce or break up. There can be disagreements, confusion and difficult emotions along the way, and most parents aren’t sure of what to expect as they transition into a new parenting arrangement. This is why parenting plans are so important. These plans serve as a guide … Read More
Are there rules in mediation?
Mediating divorce-related matters is becoming increasingly common in California. Most people prefer to stay out of court and avoid litigation because it saves time and money. It allows gives parties more freedom to negotiate agreements that best fit their individual needs and circumstances. That said, there are rules in mediation. Should someone violate these rules, mediation can be unsuccessful and … Read More
Crucial tips for talking to your children about divorce
Deciding to divorce is not an easy thing to do; telling your children about the divorce can be even more difficult. There are many suggestions for how to talk about getting divorced with your children. In this post, we explain three of these recommendations that can be particularly important if you and the other parent plan to pursue an amicable, peaceful … Read More
In divorce, past does not have to be prologue
The inscription on a figure outside the National Archives Building in the nation’s capital reads, “What is past is prologue.” It is attached to a statute that’s entitled Future and traces its roots to Shakespeare. The typical interpretation of the phrase is that past experience offers a prediction of how a similar event might play out in the future. Such … Read More
Financial issues that plagued your marriage can affect divorce
Financial issues are among the most common reasons why couples decide to end a marriage. It’s not necessarily about having money or not having money, either. As one recent article notes, financial issues that lead to divorce can involve poor financial communication, keeping secrets about money and having different money values. If you are splitting up and these are among the … Read More
Mediating your divorce? Tips to improve your negotiation skills
People often say that marriage is about compromise. In that same vein, it could be said that divorce is about negotiation. Unless you litigate your divorce, you can expect to negotiate nearly every aspect of your divorce, from child custody to property division. As such, improving your negotiation skills can be of benefit to you as you navigate this challenging … Read More
How Can I Prepare For Mediation?
When you are dealing with a difficult family legal issue like child custody or divorce, preparation will be crucial in how you resolve the matter. Often, parties will resolve these issues through mediation, not litigation. In other words, you will likely be directly involved in finding a solution. As such, the more you can prepare, the more confident you can … Read More